Im WAYYYYYY to impatient!!

We put in a offer on a house on MONDAY!! We are still fucking waiting. The house is listed at 199900. Its not worth that. It was worth maybe 185k at the most. It needs a lot of sweat equity. So we decided we were going to put a offer in on it for 160k...Then we thought and thought and we decided we needed to go a little higher. The selling agent also told me that they were just dismissing offers so we should up it a little. So we figured 177 sounded good. Well good news is they didn't tell us no, bad news is Ive lost a ton of weight and cant even think fucking straight. I took Aubrey to her 6 month check up a week early today :( This is an estate sell and it just seems like they are waiting to see how much money they can get. Well as I said its not worth the asking price and after we put in a offer someone went to view the house and stepped on the porch which if we got the house we intended on fixing ASAP, and the fucking thing collapsed. So give us the damn house. I know we wont get it. We kinda put the offer in knowing that but figured what the hell Amanda could use a stroke with all the stress. Again its been back and forth between different types of mortgages and financing ways etc. Im so stressed and over the stress. Just tell me fucking NO already we all know you want to. OKay my very dramatic vent is over for the day!!